The only things a wedding truly has to have is a bride, a groom, a minister and of course, love. Everything else that people say must be included in your wedding is all just one big stressful distraction. The following article will guide you to planning and preparing a very happy and memorable wedding day.
Pick your wedding date to be at a memorable time in your life. For example, Valentine’s Day is a romantic time to get married and is also an easy date to remember. A birthday or other anniversary is also an excellent choice. This will make remembering the date easier if either of you are very forgetful! It can also give you a theme to work with like hearts or birthday candles.
Get to bed very early on the night before your wedding. This will allow you to be as rested as possible and will help to reduce the levels of stress that you will feel from pure exhaustion. Getting a good night of sleep on the day before your wedding will maximize your experience.
The most important tool you can have in your wedding arsenal, is preparation. Make sure that your purse includes everything that you might need to fix a problems. You need to try to think of anything that can go wrong or that you may anticipate needing, such as a mirror, so that you can see if anything is stuck in your teeth, some lipstick, so that you can spruce yourself up, and maybe a couple bobby pins to calm down any unruly hair. Whatever you think you may need, try to keep it in your purse.
If the couple wants to get a shot of everyone at their wedding, try to get a shot from up high at the beginning of the ceremony when it’s likely no one will have left yet. If you’re fortunate enough to have a church with a balcony, start from there. Visit the church before the ceremony to choose the best spot to get your shot.
Flowers are great, but don’t place too many of them on your tables or they can become tacky. Flowers can be obstructive to guests a lot of the time. Plus, some guests may be allergic to flowers. You might consider placing non-scented candles in the middle of the table for an understated, romantic look.
If you’re going to be photographing a wedding, set your camera to the largest resolution possible. Large photos can be cropped to only include the good parts, which can be very helpful. They are also printable without any blurriness or pixelation, which is important for the wedding album and any framed shots the couple wants to have.
Thank your guests for attending your destination wedding with extra events, so that you can give them the trip of a lifetime. Start with a welcoming dinner at a nice restaurant on the day that they arrive, allowing them to relax and not have to worry about finding a place on their own.
If you are holding a destination wedding, have a basket filled with useful items for their trip delivered directly to their room. Include maps, cameras, hats, disposable cameras, or guides on local attractions that they may want to visit. You could also toss in a few suggestions for local eateries and cafes.
As you surely know by now, a wedding really only requires a few of the same core elements. A lot of the other aspects can change depending on religion, cultural or personal interests. These are nice additions, but can cause extra stress. Think about what you’ve read in this article. You want your guests to be happy, but the most important thing is that you and your spouse are happy while planning the wedding and on your wedding day.